How to delete your HER account
Deletion instructions
Last verified: 10/18/2026Open the HER app and navigate to your profile settings. Scroll down to select the Delete Account option. Follow the remaining on-screen prompts to confirm and finalize the permanent deletion of your profile.
About deleting your HER account
HER is a niche social networking and dating application specifically designed for lesbian, bisexual, queer, and questioning women and non-binary individuals. Unlike mainstream dating apps, HER integrates a community-focused aspect, featuring local event information, articles, and community feeds alongside traditional matching features. Users often share deeply personal information, including sexual orientation, gender identity, and precise geolocation data, which can become a significant privacy risk if the account is left dormant.
There are several reasons why a user might decide to delete their HER profile. You may have found a partner, become concerned about the security of your identity in a platform that stores sensitive LGBTQ+ identifiers, or simply wish to minimize your digital footprint across niche social platforms. Whatever your reason, removing your account ensures that your interactions, personal photos, and community posts are no longer visible to other members.
- HER handles sensitive demographic data unique to the LGBTQ+ community.
- The app tracks location-based data to facilitate local matching and event discovery.
- Deletion is often necessary for users who wish to purge their history from community threads and public-facing profiles.
What happens to your data
When you initiate the deletion process in HER, the platform aims to remove your profile information from their active servers. However, it is vital to understand that this action is generally permanent and results in the loss of all your historical messages, match history, and event RSVPs.
HER typically collects and processes the following data:
- Personally identifiable information (name, email, and age).
- Sexual orientation and gender identity markers.
- Geolocation data captured via GPS to show users in your immediate vicinity.
- Interaction data including chat logs and community feed engagement.
While HER claims to delete data upon request, they may retain certain information for legal compliance, fraud prevention, or technical debugging purposes. Backup archives may hold records of your activity for a limited period before they are overwritten. It is standard practice for such apps to keep anonymized or aggregated data for analytical improvement of their recommendation algorithms.
Privacy considerations
Using a platform like HER requires a high level of trust regarding how your sensitive sexual orientation data is managed. Because HER relies heavily on location tracking for its primary functionality, users should be aware that their movements are continuously mapped to their profile. If you choose to keep your account, review the app’s privacy settings periodically to limit what is shared with third-party advertisers.
- Disable precise location services when not actively using the app.
- Be cautious about linking external social media accounts like Instagram or Facebook to your HER profile.
- Regularly clear your cache and review your permissions in your phone's system settings.
- Understand that deleted accounts cannot be recovered; ensure you have saved any important memories or conversations before proceeding.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is deleting the HER app the same as deleting my account?
No, simply uninstalling the application from your phone does not delete your account. Your profile remains active and visible to others until you specifically select the delete option within the settings menu.
Will my matches be notified if I delete my HER account?
Usually, your profile will simply disappear from their match list or chats. They may see a notice that the user is no longer available, but HER does not send an explicit deletion notification.
Can I recover my data after deleting my HER account?
Once you confirm the deletion of your account, all data, including chats, photos, and match history, is permanently purged. There is no "undo" function once the process is complete.
Does HER sell my personal data to third parties?
HER's privacy policy outlines how they share data with service providers and advertising partners. Deleting your account is the most effective way to stop further data collection and potential ad tracking.
How long does HER take to remove my data from their systems?
While the removal from the active database is usually instantaneous, it may take a short period for your data to be purged from backup systems and logs according to their internal retention policies.
Can I request that HER manually delete all my data?
Beyond the in-app deletion, you can contact HER’s support team via their official support email to submit a formal request for data deletion under applicable privacy laws like GDPR or CCPA.